Twelve Ways of a Godly Man

I know little aside from things loosely mentioned, so I approach with care. I cannot demand that which I do not myself possess.

Herein lies 12 days of prayers.

1. A man who loves the Lord supremely… more than life, death or pain. He loves the truth, seeks to better himself constantly, and entertains holy purposes with spiritual intellect. He must understand himself and empathize with others. He must be steadfast, headstrong and decisive, but not stubborn. Possess leadership qualities; encourage the fallen. Lead by example. Live according to principle without sacrificing integrity. Value gentleness. Be chivalrous and generous.

2. An outdoorsy man who acknowledges the God of creation, and can teach something about nature. He is strong and powerful like a hand across a waterfall. He is adept in outdoor living and properly equipped for emergencies. He is knowledgeable in first aid and CPR, and other basic life support such as lifeguarding, defibrillation and the Heimlich maneuver. He is cool in danger, guarded, protective, aware of his surroundings at all times, and knowledgeable in self defense. A man who knows how to bleed with power, grace and resistance. A body that can withstand injury. Attentive to detail, a seeker of the good and beautiful. Able to capture the essence and draw out fruit or object lessons. Invigorating. Refreshing.

3. A truly authentic man who does not see flaws first. He is reserved and wise, but friendly and welcoming. His heart and hands are always ready to help. He communicates and anticipates his needs as well as others’ needs. He has a holy character, a meek disposition, and healthy masculinity. Funny and easygoing personality. He is genuine, honest, settled and grounded. Truthful, faithful, discerning, eloquent, whimsical, lighthearted, and delights himself in the laws of health. Gracious and forgiving. Not easily wounded, but soft at heart. Zealous, passionate, controlled. Deep, heavy eyes— focused, intentional. Deeper, heavier, weightier soul. All mine— for good!

4. I want a man who is truly calm and understanding. His personality is meek and quiet, and soothes my temper. I want to complement each other like fingers interlocking. He speaks softly and is slow to anger. He is cool and even, but warm and accommodating. His presence is refreshing and his countenance light. He is welcoming and hospitable. He is homestead, but wild, domesticated, and rare. He is also raw but emollient in his rebukes and critiques. He is accountable and Christlike. Loves deeply and passionately. A full, complete, wholesome, honorable man.

5. (I write this under the moonlight— not that I can see much, but I put my glasses on if it would make a difference, and it does not. This appears to be some sort of rite of passage.) I want a compassionate, caring man who both wants to be my husband and the father of our children. He loves deeply and simply. A man who cherishes and values the peace, joy, and prosperity of the family. Owns an estate and the means to uphold or keep or tend to it. Serene, and very sexy. Stately, composed, prepared. Determined, focused, gallant, dynamic, intellectual, stimulating… extraordinary. Loves my cooking and the works of my hands, and has eyes for only me. I am his and he is mine. Candid. Fruitful and multiplies. Clean and pure like water in a freshly fired handmade ceramic pot.

6. A man who does not judge the intentions and motives of another; is discerning and loyal to people’s trust. Forgives, even when it pains him. Looks beyond people’s faults and flaws. Seeks to understand each testimony and each individual as one, and seeks the bond of charity and peace. Walks two miles in a weary man’s feet, and shares his cloak with the poor. A fleshly, divinely touched heart. Undeceived. Sharp. Forbearing. Taintless. Religious. Devoted. Committed. Various spheres of influence. Objective. Expressive. Passionate. Speaks words with a voice that falls like grace and music. Cheerful. Faithful and believing. Supportive and encouraging.

7. A masculine, muscular, handsomely rugged, healthy ruddy man, with shiny hair, bright eyes, and pearly whites. Full of manhood with attractive pheromones. Has exquisite taste, but is simple and elegant. Rich in talents and wealthy in economics. He is not absorbed with the affairs or governments of this world. He is unconcerned with self, but orderly, fashionable, attractive, subtle, detailed, clean and sharp. Incredibly flirty with me❣️ Pursues intentionally, and follows the correct path as ordered by God in relation to me. Understands my weaknesses and bears with my flaws. Has a deep desire for righteousness. Wants to know me personally, intimately, and perfectly. Digs for me. Desires me within the bounds of holiness. Exceeds the standard of sanctification by truth.

8. (I’d request consistency if I was at all consistent myself. This is certainly at least the tenth day since I’ve begun. Nevertheless, as I dawn upon the Sabbath day,…) the man must be jealous for the hours that border the Sabbath. He must fully understand and accept the Three Angels’ Messages, the 28 Fundamental Beliefs, the Spirit of Prophecy, Righteousness by Faith, the Health Message, the authority of the Scriptures, the Sanctuary Message and key prophetic information. He must also respect and aid in the day of preparation. Does not speak his own words or seeks his own pleasure especially on the Sabbath. A man more perfect and more righteous than me. He is able to exert a positive religious and spiritual influence. He is willing to change in seeking perfection. Seeks God, longs after Him. I seek a holy man of God. Thank you Jesus.

9. Not trifling or distracted. Accepts me wholly. Does not make me question, wonder, or doubt our standing. Communicates his dislikes, anger, pet peeves, annoyances without fear of retaliation or shunning. Feels emotionally safe, vulnerable, and weak, but is supported, loved, and care for. He is heard and considered. Confident. Thinks before he speaks or acts, but reacts quickly if necessary. Wise, has good judgment. Discerning. Bears the fruits of the Spirit. Trustworthy, fulfilled, whole, purposeful, intentional, interactive, social. Has a clean, common sense of humor. Eats well. Takes care of his physical wellbeing and his environment.

10. An imperfect man of God who seeks the Master’s approval and favour. Strives for the accomplishment of God’s higher calling. Knows deeply well his identity, value, goal, mission and purpose. A missionary at heart. Especially kind and gentle toward the elderly, as well as disorderly, misbehaved children. Respects his peers. Prays for his neighbors and community. Participates in global outreach funding. Has experience in colporteur evangelism. Is able to lead the church youth. Finally dedicates his life to foreign missions with me.

11. Gallant, holy, spiritual, deeply meditative, favored of God. He has a countenance whose light reflects the atmosphere of heaven. He has a smile that disarms enemies, foes, and calloused faces. A voice like mighty waters and cool, gentle flowing rivers. A man whom I can say, “Never a man spake as this man.” Christlike, paced, with quick, steady reflexes. Curly, shoulder length hair. Beautiful, with dreamy eyes whose spark never dies. A content, godly steward. He has fatherly instincts that make children feel safe. He demands the respect of youth and adult. Honorable. Noble. Kingly. Righteous.

12. Native speaker.

I couldn’t describe a better man than the man I’ve described, but I recognize my utter inability to contribute to any of his personal happiness, except he has already found joy and contentment in the life he now has … but he is missing a woman. But what kind of woman? She can take care of her man, her house, and their family. But what of her bearing? Her responsibilities? Can she handle hardship? Can she trust God and her husband fully, withholding nothing?